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Thanks for joining us. To our American friends, have a fantastic Thanksgiving. To all of our international neighbors, we'll eat a little extra for you!
This is the week we are supposed to give thanks. (At least Americans are; for the rest of you I suppose it's optional.) I'm guessing that there will be hundreds (thousands?) of people on LJ making lists of the things they feel grateful for: home, family, friends, pets, food, health, money, nature, God, freedom, sunsets, and the like. And let me say right now that I too am grateful for these things.
But what I want to discuss today is a different sort of gratitude. Grudging gratitude, you might call it.
I was talking with a friend recently, who rather nonchalantly said something about “All those things you wished for and didn't get, but got something far more wonderful instead.” She said is as if it was a fact of life, a birthright, a law of nature. Like all you needed to do was make daily a “To Wish” list instead of a “To Do” list, and then sit back and wait for the spectacular results.
Trying to uphold my end of the conversation (I do better listening than speaking, but I've learned that I can't remain silent too long), I racked my brain for an example of such an event from my life. Just one. But I couldn't come up with a single instance.
Take gifts. For birthdays and holidays, I've wished for wonderful things. Elaborate, expensive, blow-your-socks-off things. Never got them. Oh, I've received very nice gifts over the years, and I truly thank the friends and family who gave them. But nothing even close to my imagination.
Career. Like most people, I wished to do something great, something memorable (or at least interesting), something to help the world. I ended up with a job that paid the bills and even a little extra in a field that nobody ever heard of. The moment I explained it, people yawned. Not that I'm not grateful, mind you. But reality turned out to be orders of magnitude below my wishes.
Family? Parents, siblings, and orbital relatives were all okay, but nobody did anything extraordinary. Nobody dispensed the wisdom of the ages (and nobody was an ax murderer either). Each had their own truly annoying qualities that I mostly learned to put up with. Husband and children? I've been blessed with both and am eternally grateful. But truth to tell, we're just part of that vast silent majority.
Family gatherings? Travel? School reunions? Exhibitions of my talents in various ways? We all know these can be far less enjoyable than what we wish for. Sometimes they are downright painful.
Like I said, I could not come up with a single part of my life in which reality came anywhere close to my imagination, let alone exceeded it. I always wished for the stars, and I always got mundane, practical, commonplace results. And as I've aged, I've begun to realize that this was the wisdom of the universe. That in my everyday work, family, and pursuits, I was given the gift of grappling with life.
I've grudgingly started to give thanks for this type of life. It's real, it's gritty, and it's what we're here to learn and experience. The gift is what we make of it, not what is handed to us. I understand. Still, just once, I think it would be nice for the universe to surprise me. Don't give me gaily wrapped but practical socks and underwear, don't even match the wish I have in mind. Rather, blow out all the stops and overwhelm me with something so extraordinary, I could say to my friend, “Yes, there was this time I wished for _____, but wow, what I got instead was _____!” And we'd shake our heads in wonder.
Topic For the Week: Do you have an instance where you really wished for something, didn't get it, but got something way better instead? If so, will you tell us about it?


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