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Scott Griffiths: November 27, 1946 - December 21, 2008


Scott Griffiths passed away this morning surrounded by the love and passion of his life, his wife Gail Johnson. Scott was full of life, love and stories to the very end. Cancer took him, but Scott refused to let it get the best of him.

Scott left a family that learned a lot from him. Scott taught his daughter Meg to live life to the fullest and to squeeze every bit of joy and fascination out of life’s experiences. He taught his son Ben to be a gentle, caring father and to be an independent spirit. Scott taught Gail that she was loved unconditionally, while she taught him to laugh and laugh and laugh.

When Scott’s kids were small, he used to sing them the song; “Love is something if you give it away.” Well, Scott certainly gave lots of love away. In return, he was surrounded by the love of wonderful friends and family until the very end.

Thanks to the many of you who supported Scott and Gail throughout his battle with cancer. Special thanks go to Charla and Karen who put their lives on hold and took turns as Scott’s caretaker, so that he could die at home. Special thanks also go to Gail’s coworkers who so kindly helped her balance work and caring for Scott.

A wake in Scott’s honor will be held in Austin at Scott and Gail's house after the holidays. The date is set for Jan. 17.  We'll post the time when plans settle.
 

Comments

I'm so sorry to hear that Scott's end has come. He gave lots of love and friendship to everyone, even those of us, like me, who never met him. And just as he taught us how to live, now he's taught us how to die.
Thank you for letting us know... I felt very, very lucky to know Scott, even just electronically, and was glad he kept living life fully until the end. My love to all of you. If I were there in person, I'd give you each a hug.

(Anonymous)

Scott, you'll be missed

Vangie, Ridley, and I are so sorry we couldn't be there for you and Scott these last few months. Scott loved life more than anyone I know. I was deeply touched by his bravery and good humor in the face of his mortality. We'll be thinking of all of you and sending you our love.

(Anonymous)

This is beautiful Meg. You did a great job, not only with this note but being there for your parents through all this. See you tomorrow.
Love you,
Elizabeth

"The world is a fine place and worth the fighting for and I hate very much to leave it." Robert Jordan, For Whom the Bell Tolls

Good-bye

Good-bye my friend. I will never forget you or the vital role you played in my life and how you helped me to become who I am today. You will never be forgotten. I love you heart and soul.

Gail,

I'm a phone call away for anything you need - anytime.
Thank you so much for letting us out here in Live Journal land know that Scott is now on the next chapter of his journey.
I was deeply touched by the things he shared here about his life and philosophy.
My condolences to all of Scott's family and friends.

(Anonymous)

Farewell Friend

I am reminded of a line in the children's book "The Little Prince". He said, be not sad, just look into night sky and see the stars and I will be laughing. I thought I heard Scott laughing last night.

Gail,
You built a greenhouse for Scott where all things flourished, bloomed and came to full cycle, and thank you for sharing your garden with so many. Always, Lynn Johnson

(Anonymous)

Knowing Scott

I never knew that my second cousin, Scott Griffiths, existed until about eight months ago, when I began delving into the history of my father’s family. My Dad’s cousin, Lillian Freuden, suggested that I get in touch with Scott, since he was writing a family history on his blog. I was astounded by it –for one thing, Scott recalled a number of Pittsburgh relatives and the things that happened to them, that I also knew. Our fathers were first cousins and surely Scott and I spent some early childhood occasions together, although we couldn’t recall them!

We shared some family lore with each other, but for me, the most important thing was getting to “know” Scott via his blog, of which I became an avid reader. His humor, honesty and courage were incredible as he faced mortality. I know that it is a loss to my branch of the family that we never met this remarkable man. I also realize that his wife is a remarkable person as well. Gail, he was lucky to have you in his life.

Lucy Russell
I am just now "cathing up" with Live Journal reading so just now learning of Scotts death.

My heart goes out to you all.

Gail, I will never forget how lovely you and Scott were when I came to visit. Your home was filled with love....a living, tangible thing that I felt blessed to be gifted by you two wonderful people. Although Scott has gone through the "doorway", his love will forever be where you are. May you be filled with peace.
Dear Gail and family--not sure if you will be checking comments here, but I wanted to let you know that we made a donation in Scott's honor to Catholic Relief Services. I know he wasn't religious, but CRS does lots of relief and education work of the sort he'd probably appreciate. He was a wonderful person.
--yours fondly, Francesca (Asakiyume)

(Anonymous)

i remember him still.

Well today is february 8th, 2011 and. I have been thinking about some special people who came into my life. I was never allowed to talk about him, but the one thing I can say is " those last days we were in the bedroom and Gail was at work. Scott would say her name and the room got a breeze." Gail I wanna say thank you for letting me come to your house and help take care of him. Yours Truely Rosie
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